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Acts 2:40 And with many other words did he
testify and exhort, saying, Save yourselves from this untoward
generation.
Acts 2:40 And with many other words he solemn testified and
kept on exhorting them, saying, "Be saved from this perverse
generation!"
Acts 2:40 And [Peter] solemnly and earnestly witnessed (testified)
and admonished (exhorted) with much more continuous speaking and
warned (reproved, advised, encouraged) them, saying, Be saved
from this crooked (perverse, wicked, unjust) generation.
The Russian Orthodox Church destroyed a chapel after local churchmen
declared it defiled because it hosted a "marriage" ceremony
for two men.
The Rev. Vladimir Enert was defrocked for conducting the service
for Denis Gogolyev and Mikhail Morozev at the Chapel of the Vladimir
Icon of the Mother of God in the city of Nizhny Novgorod, 280 miles
east of Moscow, the London Telegraph reported.
The Telegraph said a spokesman for the Orthodox Church indicated
the chapel had to be demolished because it was desecrated.
The ceremony sparked outrage across the nation, even among people
not associated with the church.
Moscow Patriarchate spokesman Viktor Malukhin stated: "Nothing
of this kind has happened during the 1,000-year history of the Russian
Church.
"According to Christian teachings," he said, "marriage
is a free union of a man and a woman blessed by God, while homosexuality
is a sign of human nature obscured by sin."
Why is the family under attack like
never before?
Because Western Civilization - and entire notion of self-government
that
emerged from it - is the real target.
Destroying Western Civilization requires the elimination of the
family
structure, where parents are accountable to God and children accountable
to parents. This is happening today in innumerable ways:
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by persuading us that alternate lifestyles are
just as good as the institution of marriage; |
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by persuading us that the state should take the
central role in educating children; |
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by persuading us that the killing of unborn children
is a valid choice for pregnant women, one that should even be
supported by tax subsidies; |
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by persuading us that both parents should work; |
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by persuading us that even small children develop
just as well when cared for by strangers in group situations
than they do when raised by parents; |
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by sexualizing our children at younger and younger
ages; |
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by convincing us that there¹s nothing we
can do about the increasingly high divorce rate in this country
and that divorce doesn¹t necessarily hurt child. |
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What's the definition of a family?
Quite simple. It is two or more people living together related by
marriage, blood, or adoption.
Recently Wal-Mart announced that they were expanding their non-
discrimination policies to include non-discrimination against homosexuals.
This move represents another major victory for the anti-God crowd
as they seek to destroy the biblical definitions of marriage and
family.
God works through families. When He created humanity, He created
us as man and woman and he joined the man and woman together in
marriage. He commanded the man to work and created the woman to
be a helpmate. He blessed them with children and the children provided
an ongoing legacy, continuing the work of the parents in stewarding
God's creation.
The family is the fundamental building block that God has used
for all of
society. Children are taught God's ways primarily through the family
and God blesses righteous men and women through their children -
through families. Cities, towns, nations, businesses and our entire
economy are built through families.
Satan is not confused. He recognizes the strength God has placed
in families and he is on the war path. Satan has unleashed his anti-God
forces in an all out attack on the God-ordained family institutions
of marriage and parenthood. These attacks are most obvious in the
form of the "gay rights" agenda of claiming these God-ordained
institutions for same-sex partners - the very relationships that
God clearly condemns in His Word.
Over the past few weeks, these anti-God forces have been gaining
steam. First, came the Supreme Court's ruling, striking down
Texas' anti-sodomy law. In other words, this ruling is a huge step
towards man redefining marriage and families in a way counter to
God's definition, and a major blow against the foundation of our
society and economy.
More recently business, in the form of Wal-Mart, has also joined
the family bashing. This employer of over a million Americans, mostly
in small-towns, has gone out of their way to prohibit discrimination
against gays and lesbians. As homosexual activists loudly proclaim,
Wal-Mart has become the 9th of the 10 largest companies to have
such a policy. The lone holdout is Exxon Mobil.
"2 out of 3 Americans reject 'gay' marriage," by Jon
E. Dougherty, showing that America's courts are far out of step
with its citizens on same-sex marriage.
"The tragedy of love American-style is sex without strings,
relationships
without rings,"
From the Beginning God's desire and the direction of His relationship
has been with the family:
1. Adam & Eve in Genesis 2
18 And the LORD God said, It is not good that the man should be
alone; I will make him an help meet for him.
21 And the LORD God caused a deep sleep to fall upon Adam, and he
slept: and he took one of his ribs, and closed up the flesh instead
thereof;
22 And the rib, which the LORD God had taken from man, made he a
woman, and brought her unto the man.
23 And Adam said, This is now bone of my bones, and flesh of my
flesh: she shall be called Woman, because she was taken out of Man.
God communicated with Adam and Eve walking in the Garden in the
cool of the day.
2. In Genesis 6 God warned Noah to save his
family.
Genesis 7
1 And the LORD said unto Noah, Come thou and all thy house into
the ark; for thee have I seen righteous before me in this generation.
God himself is the prime mover of the family.
3. The generational family began with Abraham:
In Genesis 12 God told Abraham that in him "shall
all families of the earth be blessed."
And in succession
The family dynasties of Isaac and Jacob followed.
The family dynasties of Saul, David and Solomon followed. But note
in the genealogy of Matthew 1 Saul is omitted but David's father
Jesse is named followed by David and Solomon.
The First Family of Scripture is Joseph and Mary.
The Architect and Chief Destroyer of the Family from the beginning
has been Satan. His attempt to destroy the family began in the garden
in tempting Eve.
Remember however that God had told Adam not to eat of the tree
and it was his responsibility to instruct Eve. Somewhere he failed.
As keepers of our home we cannot fail in the task of instruction
not only of our wives but of our children as well.
If you study the history of Israel in the Bible you will find four
stages of spiritual corruption that cannot be missed.
Independence
Indulgence
Indifference
Irreverence
If that gives you a sick feeling about what is happening to America,
it ought to. We are living in the most irreverent time in the history
of this country. Think about these things:
We can hand out condoms and clean needles on the streets - paid
for by our tax dollars, but we can't hand out Bibles (or any other
religious material) because that is an establishment of religion.
We allow profanity as an exercise of free speech, but we deny prayer
and nativity scenes on public property because it is a religious
intrusion.
The government indoctrinates our children with the propaganda of
evolution without God, but refuses to allow the clear and present
evidence of a creation by God.
Abortionists are the heroes protected by the government, pro-lifers
are the villains arrested by the government. We used to teach our
children that God's forgiveness comes through the blood of Jesus
Christ, now we cover our own sin up with blood of our unborn children.
Christian families have almost been completely destroyed by the
apathetic attitude of today's parents. You know, there is no such
thing as an illegitimate child. There are only illegitimate fathers
and ineffective mothers who refuse to put in the hard work and sacrifice
necessary that will ensure their children a place in the Kingdom
of Heaven.
The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom, the Proverb says.
If you don't live by it, your children will die by it.
Chuck Swindoll says, "A family is
a place where principles are hammered and honed on the anvil of
everyday living."
Chuck Colson puts it in these strong words: "Ordained by God
as the basic unit of human organization, the family is. . . the
first school of human instruction. Parents take small, self-centered
monsters, who spend much of their time screaming defiantly and hurling
peas on the carpet, and teach them to share, to wait their turn,
to respect others' property. These lessons translate into respect
for others, self-restraint, obedience to law - in short, into the
virtues of individual character
that are vital to a society's survival."
The home was meant to be a redemptive force in our lives. The first
redemptive element of the family is that: The family is where we
learn about healing. When we have been wounded by the world, the
home should be a place of retreat. When we have been beat up by
the world, the home should be a place where we are built up. Adults
and children alike need someone who will believe in them when no
one else does. They don't need to be called names at home after
they have been called names outside the home. They don't need to
be yelled at after being yelled at in school or work. When we have
been wounded by the world, home is where our wounds are mended and
our hurts are healed. We need to learn how to restore each other
and restore our relationships.
According to a study of more than 500 family counselors, the following
are the top traits of successful families:
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Communicating and listening |
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Affirming and supporting family members |
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Respecting one another |
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Developing a sense of trust |
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Sharing time and responsibility |
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Knowing right from wrong |
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Sharing about your spiritual encounter with the
Lord |
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Respecting privacy. |
--Focus on the Family Bulletin, December, 1988.
From a national survey of strong families conducted by the Human
Development and Family Department at the University of Nebraska-
Lincoln, a profile of a strong family is:
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Appreciation.
"Family members gave one another compliments and sincere
demonstrations of approval.
They tried to make the others feel appreciated and good about
themselves." |
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Ability to Deal with
Crises in a Positive Manner. "They were willing
to take a bad situation, see something positive in it and focus
on that." |
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Time Together.
"In all areas of their lives--meals, work, recreation--they
structured their schedules to spend time together." |
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High Degree of Commitment.
"Families promoted each person's happiness and welfare,
invested time and energy in each other and made family their
number one priority." |
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Good Communication Patterns.
"These families spent time talking with each other.
They also listened well, which shows respect." |
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High Degree of Religious
Orientation. "Not all belonged to an organized church,
but they considered themselves highly religious." (1983)
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--Human Development and Family Department at the University of
Nebraska- Lincoln.
In this country we have gone after the gods of hedonism, materialism,
intellectualism, humanism, and secularism. The result? The building
block for the family is fractured, it is falling, and it is failing.
There is only one solution. We must strengthen our families with
the Word of God. And it's the responsibility of the parents - NOT
the community or the state.
How can you re-enforce your families today?
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You must show them how to get saved. |
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You must show them how to pray. |
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Family prayer time. |
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Daily devotion time. |
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You must show them that there are consequences
to sin. |
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You must show them that attending church activities
and services are not something they have to do, they are a part
of your life that is essential - they are things that you love
to do and look forward to every week. |
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You must be consistent with your worship. |
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Do you children see you in church on Sunday never
to say anything at all about Jesus Christ until the next Sunday? |
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Do they hear you complain about the preacher's
message? |
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Do they hear you complain about other Christians? |
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If you don't like the way things are going in church, pray
for the church, and do something constructive instead of saying
something that is destructive. |
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If you want a better pastor, pray for the one you have. |
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